There's the intriguing suggestion that gender and species are 100% identified with each other on Deltritus: all nymphs are female, all satyrs are male. So, to transition from your birth-assigned sex, you may also have to transition from your birth-assigned species. The idea of changing one's official species does crop up occaionally in SF and fantasy. Offhand I can think of Captain Carrot from Discworld, a human orphan who was adopted by Dwarves and who considers him self to be a (6-foot-plus) Dwarf. In "Translation State" by Anne Leckie there are a couple of examples of characters changing which species they identify as. But I've never seen it linked to gender in this way before.
got bandersnatches? i,uh, can handle that for you,