I guess one line of attack is to ask how she actually feels about everything that's happened to her? Cos that's a LOT of baggage, even by Sburb player standards. I get the impression of someone who just wants things to be normal and reasonable, even though she's walking proof that it can never be again. I can imagine her being very reserved and cautious to a fault, precisely because she can wipe everying off the map if she chooses to.