the correct way to make grilled cheese

i just wanted to come out and say it, because many people make grilled cheese in pans and dont get the true experience. so you butter the bread, put some AMERICAN cheese in the middle, and press it into a foreman grill til its flatter than the bread slice you started with. i get some people dont have the foreman grill, but i think you could probably flatten the sandwich with a metal spatula.