hello, everyone. i am currently sick and have been bedridden for a few hours now. my head is pounding and my throat apparently has a few white spots or something, but this has not stopped me from being contemplative.
there’s been a big issue with me. for a couple years now, since secondary school started, i have been very contemplative of my gender identity. i apologise if this thread is against forum rules and regulations due to being personal, but i am aware that most people in the community probably have similar experiences and can help me out with this.
allow me to start off by saying that i am biologically a man (sorry if that sounded rude im really sorry). however, i don’t know what i ACTUALLY am. it’s a journey, i know, but it’s been four years and im sort of getting upset about it! my friends at school tell me to come out as transfem already, haha, and my transfem friends sometimes say they can smell it from a mile away. but the truth is, i dont even know if im just transfem! I’ve talked to my councillor about this, from when i first had her to when i was good enough to go earlier this year, and i still don’t know!! some people call me by he/him, some by she/her and others by they/them. is there something i just can’t come to terms with?? please help me find my way through this. i get that the internet isn’t my therapist, but perhaps you should all give me pointers at least?
sorry for being so serious. i know that isn’t the Doohickey Norm.
