I DONT KNOW IF A HOMESTuCK FORuM IS THE BEST PLACE TO ASK FOR RELATIONSHIP ADVICE.

DESPITE THAT I WILL DROP SOME KNOWLEDGE ON YOuR ASS. THERE IS NO "BECOMING A BETTER GF" THERE IS SIMPLY BECOMING A BETTER PERSON AND THAT TENDS TO BLEED OVER. MAKE SuRE THEY ARE HAPPY AND COMFORTABLE AND ASK THEM WHAT THEIR BOuNDRIES ARE. AND *LISTEN* TO THEM. AND ABIDE BY THEM.

ALSO MAKE SuRE TO SHOW YOu LOVE THEM. IT CAN BE EMBARRASSING BuT IT GOES A LONG WAY.