finally actually making an account here so i say that, regardless of what is true and who is "in the right" i guess, i'm sorry for listening to my gut reaction on a situation that is obviously much more serious and deep than i treated it as, for a community i have no experience with, about people i know nothing about. i really ought to have kept my nose out of this entire situation until both sides had been brought to light and made judgement from there. i know that i personally don't have like, any affect on anything, but i feel like i should hold myself accountable in some way.